Rebuild SubmenuButton when onOpen is called

[LongCatIsLooong]

        child = MergeSemantics(
          child: Semantics(
            expanded: controller.isOpen,
            child: ...
          ),
       ),

didn't work because it depends on controller.isOpen but the widget doesn't automatically rebuild when isOpen changes.

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