Required wait update stage, update polling improvements, and other update changes (#521)

Fixes #484
Fixes #424
Fixes #485
Fixes #514

Author: cretz

.github/workflows/ci.yml

@@ -105,3 +105,4 @@ jobs:
       python-repo-path: ${{github.event.pull_request.head.repo.full_name}}
       version: ${{github.event.pull_request.head.ref}}
       version-is-repo-ref: true
+      features-repo-ref: python-update-updates