Script and config updates in preparation for 0.5.0

[bmhowe23]

This includes:

• Bumping cuda-quantum wheel dependencies from 0.12 to 0.13.
• Updating the GitHub build scripts to accept draft release artifacts that only hold the nv-qldpc-decoder (as opposed to duplicates of the things that are built on the public repo).
• Adds CUDA 13 to .github/workflows/all_libs_release.yaml
• Update some of our tests to not fail if they are nv-qldpc-decoder tests that are being run in a CPU-only environment (like some of our GitHub scripts do)

[bmhowe23]

Links to runs:
Wheels build: https://github.com/NVIDIA/cudaqx/actions/runs/19144312689
Docker libs: https://github.com/NVIDIA/cudaqx/actions/runs/19144383231

[melody-ren]

Is this torch installation mod needed for the other workflows? E.g., all_libs.yaml?

[bmhowe23]

Yes, that would probably be a good idea. Based on NVIDIA/cuda-quantum#3579 (comment), it sounds like this might need another revision though, at least to work with the rest of the CUDA-Q dependencies.

[bmhowe23]

I'd probably like to handle that update separately though. As written, the changes I have (plus your suggestion) are sufficient to get all of our builds built and the tests passing.