First and Last Accumulators should update with state row excluding is_set flag #7567
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Describe the bug
First and Last Accumulators would update itself from first/last row during merging state batches (e.g., merge_batch). However, currently it takes the whole state row (which includes is_set flag) into update_with_new_row which in turn takes all columns except for first one into orderings (so existing is_set is put there) and adds is_set flag. This ends with double is_set flags if state is called on the accumulators which have merged state batches.
Normally this is not an issue because state is not called once aggregation enters the stage of merging state batches. But in #7400, where spilling happens to call state on such accumulators to get its states and spill into disk. This leads to a hacky fix there and we should fix these two accumulators accordingly to avoid the hacky way.
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