Move `arrow_cast` to `datafusion-functions` crate

[alamb]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge?

Part of #9285 and #8045

The goal is to extract function definitions out of the datafusion core.

This ticket also has the nice benefit of being able to show off the newly added API in #8985

Describe the solution you'd like

Move the arrow_cast function to datafusion-functions

Describe alternatives you've considered

Note arrow_cast is somewhat different than most functions as it is implemented as part of sql parsing rather than as a normal BuiltinFunction. This means that the rest
of datafusion sees it as an Expr::Cast which has special case handling.

We may need to add some way to for ScalarUDFs to simplify themselves (in this case for ArrowCast to "unwrap" itself).

Additional context

No response

[alamb]

I think #9289 would allow us to preserve the same cast semantics