It will throw an error when both using `server.closeIdleConnections()` & `server.close()`

[xtx1130]

Version

18.5.0

Platform

Darwin Kernel Version 21.4.0: Fri Mar 18 00:47:26 PDT 2022; root:xnu-8020.101.4~15/RELEASE_ARM64_T8101 x86_64

Subsystem

http

What steps will reproduce the bug?

$ git clone git@github.com:xtx1130/node-idleconection-test.git
$ npm i
$ npm t

When I'm dealing with fastify/fastify#4098, I found a strange behavior in server:
If both using closeidleConnections & close api to deal with server.close, it will throw an error, but is ok to use one of this. And I have noticed that in this pr:#43522 closeidleConnections will run in server.close. If use main branch to run this code without trigger closeidleConnections it will also throw the same error.

How often does it reproduce? Is there a required condition?

always

What is the expected behavior?

return {"data":"Hello World!"}

What do you see instead?

node:internal/process/esm_loader:91
    internalBinding('errors').triggerUncaughtException(
                              ^

RequestError: connect ECONNREFUSED 0.0.0.0:3000
    at ClientRequest.<anonymous> (file:///Users/didi/Desktop/fastify-test/fastify-shutdown-regression/fastify-4/node_modules/got/dist/source/core/index.js:760:107)
    at Object.onceWrapper (node:events:652:26)
    at ClientRequest.emit (node:events:549:35)
    at Socket.socketErrorListener (node:_http_client:465:9)
    at Socket.emit (node:events:537:28)
    at emitErrorNT (node:internal/streams/destroy:151:8)
    at emitErrorCloseNT (node:internal/streams/destroy:116:3)
    at process.processTicksAndRejections (node:internal/process/task_queues:82:21)
    at TCPConnectWrap.afterConnect [as oncomplete] (node:net:1237:16) {
  input: undefined,
  code: 'ECONNREFUSED',
  timings: {
    start: 1657536578532,
    socket: 1657536578533,
    lookup: undefined,
    connect: undefined,
    secureConnect: undefined,
    upload: undefined,
    response: undefined,
    end: undefined,
    error: 1657536578533,
    abort: undefined,
    phases: {
      wait: 1,
      dns: undefined,
      tcp: undefined,
      tls: undefined,
      request: undefined,
      firstByte: undefined,
      download: undefined,
      total: 1
    }
  },
  options: Options {
    _unixOptions: undefined,
    _internals: {
      request: undefined,
      agent: { http: undefined, https: undefined, http2: undefined },
      h2session: undefined,
      decompress: true,
      timeout: {
        connect: undefined,
        lookup: undefined,
        read: undefined,
        request: undefined,
        response: undefined,
        secureConnect: undefined,
        send: undefined,
        socket: undefined
      },
      prefixUrl: '',
      body: undefined,
      form: undefined,
      json: undefined,
      cookieJar: undefined,
      ignoreInvalidCookies: false,
      searchParams: undefined,
      dnsLookup: undefined,
      dnsCache: undefined,
      context: {},
      hooks: {
        init: [],
        beforeRequest: [],
        beforeError: [],
        beforeRedirect: [],
        beforeRetry: [],
        afterResponse: []
      },
      followRedirect: true,
      maxRedirects: 10,
      cache: undefined,
      throwHttpErrors: true,
      username: '',
      password: '',
      http2: false,
      allowGetBody: false,
      headers: {
        'user-agent': 'got (https://github.com/sindresorhus/got)',
        connection: 'close',
        'accept-encoding': 'gzip, deflate, br'
      },
      methodRewriting: false,
      dnsLookupIpVersion: undefined,
      parseJson: [Function: parse],
      stringifyJson: [Function: stringify],
      retry: {
        limit: 2,
        methods: [ 'GET', 'PUT', 'HEAD', 'DELETE', 'OPTIONS', 'TRACE' ],
        statusCodes: [
          408, 413, 429, 500,
          502, 503, 504, 521,
          522, 524
        ],
        errorCodes: [
          'ETIMEDOUT',
          'ECONNRESET',
          'EADDRINUSE',
          'ECONNREFUSED',
          'EPIPE',
          'ENOTFOUND',
          'ENETUNREACH',
          'EAI_AGAIN'
        ],
        maxRetryAfter: undefined,
        calculateDelay: [Function: calculateDelay],
        backoffLimit: Infinity,
        noise: 100
      },
      localAddress: undefined,
      method: 'GET',
      createConnection: undefined,
      cacheOptions: {
        shared: undefined,
        cacheHeuristic: undefined,
        immutableMinTimeToLive: undefined,
        ignoreCargoCult: undefined
      },
      https: {
        alpnProtocols: undefined,
        rejectUnauthorized: undefined,
        checkServerIdentity: undefined,
        certificateAuthority: undefined,
        key: undefined,
        certificate: undefined,
        passphrase: undefined,
        pfx: undefined,
        ciphers: undefined,
        honorCipherOrder: undefined,
        minVersion: undefined,
        maxVersion: undefined,
        signatureAlgorithms: undefined,
        tlsSessionLifetime: undefined,
        dhparam: undefined,
        ecdhCurve: undefined,
        certificateRevocationLists: undefined
      },
      encoding: undefined,
      resolveBodyOnly: false,
      isStream: false,
      responseType: 'text',
      url: <ref *1> URL {
        [Symbol(context)]: URLContext {
          flags: 400,
          scheme: 'http:',
          username: '',
          password: '',
          host: '0.0.0.0',
          port: 3000,
          path: [ 'delay' ],
          query: null,
          fragment: null
        },
        [Symbol(query)]: URLSearchParams {
          [Symbol(query)]: [],
          [Symbol(context)]: [Circular *1]
        }
      },
      pagination: {
        transform: [Function: transform],
        paginate: [Function: paginate],
        filter: [Function: filter],
        shouldContinue: [Function: shouldContinue],
        countLimit: Infinity,
        backoff: 0,
        requestLimit: 10000,
        stackAllItems: false
      },
      setHost: true,
      maxHeaderSize: undefined
    },
    _merging: false,
    _init: [ { headers: { Connection: 'close' } } ]
  }
}

Node.js v18.5.0

Additional information

No response

[tniessen]

cc @ShogunPanda

[ShogunPanda]

Fixed in #43890.