Add integration with Paralight

[gendx]

Paralight is a lightweight parallelism library tuned for indexed structures such as slices. Given that the internal representation of hashbrown's hash tables is a slice of buckets (that each optionally contain a value), it's a good fit to integrate with (gendx/paralight#5).

This pull request is here to iterate on the design. As the integration needs access to the raw hash table representation, it's done here in the hashbrown crate (similarly to Rayon's integration).

[clarfonthey]

I think that it's fair to do this given the presence of a Rayon implementation also (although, IMHO, we shouldn't be including these implementations in this crate…) but I also think that regardless of what is done, any primitives needed to make this work should be added to HashTable directly so that people can code their own versions of this.

For example, at one point I was contemplating offering an API that directly provided access to the &[MaybeUninit<T>] and &[Tag] slices in the table, and I think such an API might be helpful here too. Note that the tags and items in the hash table are actually in reverse order to each other, since one uses negative offsets from the central pointer and the other one uses positive offsets.