[Neuron] Add Neuron device communicator for vLLM v1

[gnovack]

This PR is part of the effort to support vLLM v1 architecture on the neuron platform (see #11152). This change adds a device communicator class for the neuron backend using torch_xla.

Neuron-specific test cases are added to tests/neuron and are based on the existing distributed comms tests in tests/distributed/test_comm_ops.py

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[liangfu]

LGTM, but it would be better to signoff the commit to comply with DCO.

@aarondou @chongmni-aws please take another look

[simon-mo]

@youkaichao @robertgshaw2-redhat would be great to get an understanding whether fits architecturally

[youkaichao]

LGTM since it only touches the neuron side code