[Bug] Remove apt cache after apt-get

[areusch]

Per #9060 (comment), best practice for apt-get install in docker is to rm -rf /var/lib/apt/lists/* after installation. we should change all docker apt-get command to do this.

[leandron]

Per #9060 (comment), best practice for apt-get install in docker is to rm -rf /var/lib/apt/lists/* after installation. we should change all docker apt-get command to do this.

Also it is implied by this change that all our docker/install/*.sh files should not assume there is an apt cache, and therefore, they should all apt-get update prior to installing any package.

[areusch]

maybe we should just write an apt wrapper that handles this and only apt-get update one per CI image build?

[driazati]

Fixed in #11470